I learned that life is about transforming through our life experiences. There is no point in attaching ourselves to what was or what can be. 

We are here to learn, change and grow. We make things much harder on ourselves when we resist our growth…and all for nothing. 

Look at your life right now and ask yourself these questions: 

• What are you justifying?
• What are you blaming? 
• What are you denying?
• What do you keep replaying in your mind?
• What are you trying to convince yourself of?